Overcoming and Getting Over



"For everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith." -- 1 John 5:4


You can't overcome without getting over something. By its definition, overcoming means to get over some sort of obstacle. God has promised that we can get over anything in this world through our faith in him. Faith that God is all good, even when our circumstances are all bad.

Here's the truth about getting hurt. When people hurt you, it isn't personal. It isn't about you. You never even crossed their minds. They were only thinking of themselves. "How can I advance? How can I look cool? How can I have fun?" Your pain was just the by-product of their selfish ambition.

Buddha taught that holding a grudge is like a man who grabs a hot coal with the intention of hurling at his enemy. The one holding the burning coal is the only one who gets hurt.

How do we overcome our circumstances? We let go of the hot coal. We must get over in order to come over. That's how we overcome!

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5 Easy Steps to a Healthier You!



Not everyone is meant to be a size zero. If you're happy with you, I'm happy with you too. But I believe, we all could use a little tune up now and then.

Here are five simple steps you can begin doing today to gain control of your health and self-image.

1. Throw away your scale.

I do not own a scale. Nor will I purchase one.

The number of pounds your body weighs is completely irrelevant. It is not a good marker of how healthy you are. Healthy bones and strong muscles weigh more than cellulite and love-handles.

If you must count something, count inches. Buy yourself a measuring tape and begin obsessing about how large your waist is. The larger your belly, the more likely you will die from heart disease. That goes for men and women.

2. Hydrate.

Drinking a glass of water is a super cheap, refillable way to make yourself look and feel better.

If you are having a hard time quitting smoking, try switching to bottled water. Water will flush the nicotine out of your system. Plus, it will give you energy and provide the hand-to-mouth fixation you crave.

Throw away your soft drinks! Soda is associated with fattening foods. If you can train yourself to like water, you can train yourself to stop craving greasy, calorie-packed fast-food. (Yes, it's true diet soda has zero calories, but emotionally it is linked with high-calorie unhealthy food. Plus, you don't need all those artificial chemicals in your body.)

Often times we mistake thirst for cravings or hunger. Usually you are just plain thirsty. If your belly and mouth are constantly being filled with water, they won't be filled with junk food.

3. Eat More Fiber.

Fiber makes you full, and keeps your blood-sugar stable. Therefore, it staves off the munchies!

There is no fiber in meat. No fiber in cheese. No fiber in sweets. Fiber is in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.

Try adding vegetables to all your recipes. It fills you up, without adding extra fat. Perhaps even try vegetarianism. It's good for the environment, your spiritual well-being, and lowers your risk of heart-disease.

Begin with breakfast. Try eating a cup of old-fashioned oats for breakfast everyday (add cinnamon for flavor). Training yourself to eat the same high-fiber breakfast every day cuts down on your morning routine time. Plus, it keeps you from eating high-fat, high-calorie foods in the morning that weigh you down like eggs, bacon, or waffles.

Don't skip breakfast! That's a huge no-no. If you're not a breakfast eater, start! Force yourself to eat, whether you are hungry or not. It will prevent bingeing on empty calories later in the day.

4. Move, Stretch, Breathe.


You don't have to spend a fortune on a gym membership or equipment. But you do have to move. Don't stress about getting the closest parking space. Take stairs instead of the elevator.

When you put moving, stretching, and breathing together you get yoga. For some reason, the word "yoga" scares a lot of people, particularly conservative middle-Americans. So don't use that word. You can even quote the Bible while you stretch if that makes you more comfortable.

Do some deep breathing and stretching every morning and evening. It will boost your immune system and give you energy. Start reaching for your toes. Eventually you'll get their. I promise.


5. Live, Laugh, Love.


Laughing is an immune booster. It's also a calorie burner. Get undignified occasionally. Enjoy life, not just vacation. Learn to laugh, and you will feel better about yourself, and therefore eat less.

Feeling great and looking great all begins in your mind. If you love yourself and enjoy your life, you will attract positive attention from others. Therefore, you'll create your own attractiveness.

Attractiveness has nothing to do the way your body looks. It has everything to do with how you feel about how your body looks.

Take control of your health and your life. It's possible to love who you are and how you look. No matter how things look right now.

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Joy to the World: Love Has Come



Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord." Luke 2:10-11


I believe in Joy. I think we need more of it, no matter how much you think you have already. Many religious people are at war with joy. They despise it. They do their best to stomp it out the moment it flickers.

The Bible says, "The joy of the Lord is our strength." I have found that to be true.

There are too many people who are angry, depressed, and stressed out. It doesn't matter if you go to church or not, if you read the Bible every day, or if you don't even own one. We're all the same. Too stressed. Too angry. Too sad. We need more joy!

The night Jesus was born, angels appeared singing of the good news that God had poured his love into human form! Love was made flesh and dwelt among us. And love's name was Jesus.

Joy without love is just ruckus. The love of God causes an outbreak of true joy, not just noise.

"In Your presence is fullness of joy!" (Psalm 16:11) Here's the kicker. God is omnipresent, therefore joy is omnipresent! That means joy is anywhere you want to find it! Anytime you want to find it.

Close your eyes. Smile. Take a deep breathe, and receive the joy of the Lord right now. Right where you are. He's not mad at you. He doesn't hate you. He loves you.

Joy to the world! One and all.

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Do What You Want



We limit ourselves out of obligation. We neglect our dreams. We don't take the path we'd like to take. We often take the path that is expected for us to take.

We let others' thoughts and opinions of us rule our lives. But their opinions have no real power. Even if your whole family disapproved of your choices, what difference would it make? Ponder that for a moment. Have one hundred percent of the people approved of a hundred percent of your actions a hundred percent of the time? No. Life still went on. The earth still turned. Food still made it's way to the table, and the sun still rose the next day.

So why be afraid of what they will think? I say love your parents, but do what you want. Love your husband, but do what you want. Love your co-workers, but do what you want.

Don't stay in a job that limits you just to appease your boss or to make a living. Pursue what you want. Don't put off going back to school, if a college degree is what you truly desire. Think of ways to make it happen, then do those things to bring it to pass.

People are afraid to move to a new city. People are afraid to take a job for higher pay because it means longer hours. People are afraid to come out the closet about their sexuality. People are afraid to convert to the religion of their choice. Why? Because of what other people will think. Don't be those people. Be yourself.

If people are so selfish as to stop loving you because of personal choices you make, then they are not the kind of people you want in your life anyway.

Do what you want to do. Be who you want to be. You are unlimited in your potential, but easily limited by your own thoughts. This is why the Bible commands us to take our thoughts captive. 1 You control what you think about, and you control what you do. No one else. You.

Pursue the dreams you have for yourself. The rest will work itself out.

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